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1960s 1970s Kitchen Tapes

The Kitchen Tapes No. 10

Recorded 22 April 2018

Early Years at Craig House and with the Andersons

GM: OK, today is Sunday 22nd of April, 2018.  We are with Trenna Mahney.  I think Tren you wanted to talk a bit more about the early years at Craig House.

Craig House

THM:  Right.  I don’t really remember getting to Craig House. I knew I was getting excited to go to where my sisters and brother were, and when I got there I didn’t … Read the rest ... “The Kitchen Tapes No. 10”

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1990s Menus Recipes

The Menu Diaries No. 3

May 1992

For an introduction to what these Menu Diary posts are about, please click here.

Monday 4 May. Steak with green pepper sauce, herbed spud, beans, carrots. Tren describes it as gluggy but yummy. She is referring to the green pepper sauce. I haven’t had it for years. It was made with peppercorns that came in a small green can, and evaporated milk was the other main ingredient. It was delicious, but hard not to make gluggy. We … Read the rest ... “The Menu Diaries No. 3”

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Carer Coping Heart and Lung Failure Marfan Medical Snippets and Vignettes Visually Impaired

Things That Worked for Trenna -Part 2

Strategies and tips used by someone with a degenerative condition and chronic illness

By Greg

Things Trenna and I Tried, That Worked

in no particular order

This is the second part of this list. For the first part please click here.

I’m already working on part 3 as things we have done in the past pop randomly into my scone.

Coloured Lever Arch Files (although there are electronic filing alternatives now)

As you will find out by going through this … Read the rest ... “Things That Worked for Trenna -Part 2”

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1990s Menus Recipes

The Menu Diaries No. 2

April 1992

For an introduction to what these Menu Diary posts are about, please click here.

Saturday 4 April. “Ragaletto”! A pasta sauce from a jar!? Could this be right? Then I remembered that when we were first together and both working it wasn’t uncommon for us to have Dolmio brand pasta sauces from a jar. On this occasion I suspect we had it because it was Saturday and we had probably been busy all day – most … Read the rest ... “The Menu Diaries No. 2”

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1960s 1970s Craig House Kitchen Tapes Visually Impaired

Number Nine, Number Nine…

This Kitchen Tape Recorded on 21 April 2018

GM:  OK, today is Saturday, 21st of April, 2018 and I’m with Trenna Mahney.  Tren, you were going to tell us a bit more about Craig House, I think? 

THM:  Alright.  The main house – I was talking about the kitchen and the back enclosed…  well, I guess, in a way it was a bit of a pantry, where it had the fruit cupboard, and all that. 

Sleeping Arrangements

That leads into … Read the rest ... “Number Nine, Number Nine…”

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1990s Menus Recipes

The Menu Diaries No.1

March 1992

For an introduction to what these Menu Diary posts are about, please click here.

The first thing I notice about this menu sheet is that there are a number of crossings out. I think at first Trenna was drawing up the sheets with what she expected we would be eating. Then when circumstances changed she had to cross out what was planned and write what we actually had.

I believe after just a few sheets she cottoned … Read the rest ... “The Menu Diaries No.1”

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1990s 2000s 2010s Menus Recipes

Introducing the Menu Diaries

A New Series of Posts Based on Trenna’s Records of Evening Meals

A New Career and a New Kitchen

In 1990-91 Trenna and I employed builders to do our first home renovation. Trenna had recently resigned from her job at the Hospital Benefit Fund (HBF) and therefore had the time to keep a record of what tradesmen came when.

I believe I’ve still got that record, but that will be the subject of a totally different post.

The reason I … Read the rest ... “Introducing the Menu Diaries”

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1980s Love and Marriage Snippets and Vignettes

A Burger with a Peace Rally, and a Watch on the Side

By Greg

Palm Sunday, 27 March 1988

Here is a special bonus post, because it is Palm Sunday today. Neither Trenna nor I were religious, but there is a story related to this day that Trenna and I always remembered.

Setting The Scene

I got together with Trenna at the very start of 1988, so our relationship was very young. I’m pretty sure by that stage we hadn’t said the word LOVE in a sentence to each other.

The Cold … Read the rest ... “A Burger with a Peace Rally, and a Watch on the Side”

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1960s 1970s Craig House Kitchen Tapes

Tape 8 from the Kitchen

Recorded on the 20th April 2018

Mainly About Meals

[GM: Before we start. Also see the post “Floor 7 1/2” as it contains a player to hear “Tape 8 from the Kitchen” spoken in Trenna’s own words.]

GM:  OK, today it is Friday the 20th of April, 2018.  Tren, yesterday we were talking about Craig House and meals.  Tell us a bit more about Craig House. 

THM: Having talked about meals, there was something I haven’t mentioned, and that … Read the rest ... “Tape 8 from the Kitchen”

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1960s 1970s 1990s 2000s Craig House Kitchen Tapes Travel

Floor 7 1/2

… and Trenna’s Voice, Recording Kitchen Tape No. 8

By Greg, and then Trenna’s own voice

The popular-culturally literate among you will immediately be thinking “Being John Malkovich“.

What’s this got to do with Trenna?

Well….

I have decided that in most cases I’m NOT going to put the original sound recordings on this website – at least for now.

However, I thought I should put up at least one, to provide an idea of what the original … Read the rest ... “Floor 7 1/2”

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2010s Love and Marriage Music

THE Rolling Stones Concert – Part 2

By Greg

As the title suggests, this is the second part of the story, the first part is here.

Near the Stage

So there we were, in the tongue pit with Tren’s great friend Sue, who she probably hadn’t seen for a couple of years, and Sue’s sister, Judy.

“Ahhh! You’ve got the same top as me!”  Both have a black (of course) “It’s only rock n roll” singlet top.  Judy has a different, but equally cool Stones top.… Read the rest ... “THE Rolling Stones Concert – Part 2”

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1960s 1970s Craig House Kitchen Tapes

The Kitchen Tapes #7

Recorded 19 April 2018

Meals at Craig House

GM:  OK, today is the 19th of April 2018, with Trenna Mahney.  Tren, can you tell me whatever you can think of about Craig House.

THM:  Well, Craig House was quite posh in some ways. It was formal in that we had to dress for dinner each night. 

In the large dining area there were three tables, one very big jarrah, which would have seated one at each end and about 5 … Read the rest ... “The Kitchen Tapes #7”

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1990s Darwin Love and Marriage Writing

Commencing the Darwin Letters

By Greg, and then Trenna

Trenna and I lived in Darwin the capital of the Northern Territory from 1995 to 1997. Darwin, for our international readers is well and truely in the tropics.

This is our copy of Microsoft Word Version 5. It came with 5.25″ floppy disks, 6 printed manuals, and a keyboard overlay.

During that time, thankfully, Trenna took the lead in writing home to friends and relatives. Yes it was the era of letters and expensive long … Read the rest ... “Commencing the Darwin Letters”

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2010s Love and Marriage Music

THE Rolling Stones Concert  Part 1

By Greg

The time had to come in the life of this website when I had to write about THE Rolling Stones concert.  For one reason I have HUNDREDS of photos Trenna and I took at the concert, and for another, Trenna and I had such a good time.

The Very Earlier Story

Trenna told me that she was keen to go to the Rolling Stones concert, at the WACA grounds in 1973.  She would have been 16 years old … Read the rest ... “THE Rolling Stones Concert  Part 1”

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1960s Craig House Kitchen Tapes Marfan Mofflyn Homes Visually Impaired

The Kitchen Tapes # 6

Recorded on 15 April 2018

Primary School Days

GM:  OK, today is Sunday, the 15th of April 2018, I’m with Trenna Mahney, and she’s going to continue telling us about her memories of her past.  Tren, last time we were talking with you you were on your way to school …

THM:  I was talking about that slightly in the future, when Helen had arrived, I think. But I should go back to when I first came to Craig … Read the rest ... “The Kitchen Tapes # 6”

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1960s 1970s Craig House End of Life Eulogy Grief Mourning

Eulogy Part 3

A Celebration of Trenna’s Life  –  15 January 2021

Below is the the eulogy delivered by Trenna’s friend, Helen Rice at the celebration of Trenna’s life.

Eulogy


I met Trenna in October 1967 when I moved to Craig House a hostel for Legacy children.We bonded instantly as we were the youngest at Craig House at that time. She became my closest friend very quickly, so much so that I remember not wanting to go on a visit with my mother … Read the rest ... “Eulogy Part 3”

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End of Life Heart and Lung Failure Marfan Medical Mourning Snippets and Vignettes Visually Impaired Writing

I am Stuck

A Screen shot from Trenna's iPad
A screen shot from Trenna’s iPad

[Note from Greg: I don’t think for one moment that when Trenna prepared this piece on her iPad that she just added a nice picture to the top. I think the fact that she is standing on an island (Staten), with the rest of the world behind her (New York City) is entirely deliberate and relevant.]

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2020 Carer End of Life Eulogy Grief Marfan Medical Mourning

Eulogy Part 2

A Celebration of Trenna’s Life  –  15 January 2021

Below is the the eulogy delivered by Trenna’s oldest sister, Nancy Seckington-Baker at the celebration of Trenna’s life.

Eulogy

Greg has shared his story of Tren’s story. He has stressed I have 5 minutes.

We have endless, wonderful stories of our sister Trenna.  

A truly life WELL LIVED.

However those stories are for another time and place.

I am here to say how incredibly thankful and grateful that we  have … Read the rest ... “Eulogy Part 2”

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1960s Craig House Kitchen Tapes Mofflyn Homes

The Kitchen Tapes #5

Recorded 14 April 2018

GM:  OK, so we’re here with Trenna Mahney.  It’s the 14th of April,  2018. Tren, you were going to tell me about when you left Mofflyn Homes and went off to Craig House. 

THM: Alright.  It is a blurr.  That time in my life was lost to me a little.  I was well… I thought I only went to grade 1 when I was aged six at East Victoria Park Primary School, but apparently not.  I … Read the rest ... “The Kitchen Tapes #5”

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2010s Travel

Andy Warhol

By Greg

I started to watch The Andy Warhol Diaries on Netflix last night. It reminded me of two instances when the great artist and the great woman connected…….

Trenna at the Western Australian Art Gallery – 16 December 2012.

Starring Helen and Trenna. Melbourne 2016.