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1980s Love and Marriage Snippets and Vignettes Writing

The Newlywed Diary

In It’s Entirety – all 390 words

Intro by Greg, the Diary by Trenna

Introduction

Today I was looking for a different piece of Trenna history, when I stumbled across a lovely hard cover book I hadn’t seen for some time.

It was bought at Myer (department store) for $15 (which sounds to me like a lot of money, considering it was in 1989). It comprises 100 or so blank pages.

The very first page has Trenna’s writing on both … Read the rest ... “The Newlywed Diary”

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1980s Love and Marriage Snippets and Vignettes

A Burger with a Peace Rally, and a Watch on the Side

By Greg

Palm Sunday, 27 March 1988

Here is a special bonus post, because it is Palm Sunday today. Neither Trenna nor I were religious, but there is a story related to this day that Trenna and I always remembered.

Setting The Scene

I got together with Trenna at the very start of 1988, so our relationship was very young. I’m pretty sure by that stage we hadn’t said the word LOVE in a sentence to each other.

The Cold … Read the rest ... “A Burger with a Peace Rally, and a Watch on the Side”

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2010s Love and Marriage Music

THE Rolling Stones Concert – Part 2

By Greg

As the title suggests, this is the second part of the story, the first part is here.

Near the Stage

So there we were, in the tongue pit with Tren’s great friend Sue, who she probably hadn’t seen for a couple of years, and Sue’s sister, Judy.

“Ahhh! You’ve got the same top as me!”  Both have a black (of course) “It’s only rock n roll” singlet top.  Judy has a different, but equally cool Stones top.… Read the rest ... “THE Rolling Stones Concert – Part 2”

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1990s Darwin Love and Marriage Writing

Commencing the Darwin Letters

By Greg, and then Trenna

Trenna and I lived in Darwin the capital of the Northern Territory from 1995 to 1997. Darwin, for our international readers is well and truely in the tropics.

This is our copy of Microsoft Word Version 5. It came with 5.25″ floppy disks, 6 printed manuals, and a keyboard overlay.

During that time, thankfully, Trenna took the lead in writing home to friends and relatives. Yes it was the era of letters and expensive long … Read the rest ... “Commencing the Darwin Letters”

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2010s Love and Marriage Music

THE Rolling Stones Concert  Part 1

By Greg

The time had to come in the life of this website when I had to write about THE Rolling Stones concert.  For one reason I have HUNDREDS of photos Trenna and I took at the concert, and for another, Trenna and I had such a good time.

The Very Earlier Story

Trenna told me that she was keen to go to the Rolling Stones concert, at the WACA grounds in 1973.  She would have been 16 years old … Read the rest ... “THE Rolling Stones Concert  Part 1”

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Craig House GFS Grief Love and Marriage Marfan Medical

“Please allow me to introduce myself…”


About This Site and About Trenna Mahney

By Greg Mahney

A quick note before you start. If you have read the “About” page of this website you can ignore this particular post as the contents is the same as on that page. If that’s you, just scroll down.

About Trenna

You will learn a lot about Trenna as you go through the material on this website. However, if you aren’t already familiar with Trenna here is a quick primer to … Read the rest ... ““Please allow me to introduce myself…””

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2010s Coping Love and Marriage Marfan Medical Travel Visually Impaired

The Wellington Earthquake

By Greg

Business Class Travel – It’s Not For Everyone

In November 2016 my then employer, Advocare Inc, gave me the opportunity to go to a mediation conference in Wellington, New Zealand.

Travel was becoming increasingly difficult for Trenna. Her eyesight was very bad and her pain management was not going well. We knew that the long flight from Perth in Western Australia to Auckland and then down to Wellington would take its toll.

On the other hand it really … Read the rest ... “The Wellington Earthquake”

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2010s Carer Coping Heart and Lung Failure iPad Knowledge Love and Marriage Marfan Medical Visually Impaired

The Recce-Vite

A little bit of fun is better than none

by Greg

Trenna became aware at some point around 2010 that she was getting out of the house less and less – it was often pretty hard. But she didn’t want to lose touch with the city in which she lived.  And she wanted some recreation and a change of scenery.

So, she invented the “Recce-Vite”. She was using French words to describe a quick look around somewhere.

A recce-vite was … Read the rest ... “The Recce-Vite”

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2020 End of Life Eulogy Love and Marriage Mourning Music

Soundtrack of Trenna’s Life

By Greg

Setting Some Context

On 15 January 2021 a celebration of Trenna’s life was held. I wanted to hand out a postcard which had a picture of Trenna and a couple of links to a playlist I developed after Trenna passed away a few weeks earlier. I then put up a Facebook post to help people to click through to the playlist.

That Facebook post appears below and I have embedded the Youtube Playlist and the Spotify below.

I … Read the rest ... “Soundtrack of Trenna’s Life”

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2010s Carer Collected Wisdom Coping iPad Knowledge Love and Marriage Marfan

Living With Your Spouse

The iPad Documents – Collected and Created Knowledge From Trenna

This post is a simple one, but to Trenna and I the following was important.

In May 2017 Trenna wrote the PDF document that appears below. The formatting was as she wrote it on her iPad. The font size she used was large to help her read it.

The distinctive colour was to help her find it on her iPad when the document was minimised.

As far as I can … Read the rest ... “Living With Your Spouse”