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1970s GFS Grief Kitchen Tapes

The Kitchen Tapes #22

Recorded 14 June 2018

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GM:  Today is Thursday the 14th of June, 2018.  Trenna Mahney is telling us of her memories.  I reckon we ought to talk a little bit more about your time at Girls’ Friendly Society, in Adelaide Terrace in Perth.

THM:   Just to place it a bit better… I remember that it’s at 122 Adelaide Terrace. And across the road a little bit was the Sheraton Hotel.  [GM: Now the Pan Pacific HotelRead the rest ... “The Kitchen Tapes #22”

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Coping Grief Mourning

Grief – What I’ve Learnt in the First 18 Months

by Greg

Any Tips?

I’m a Justice of the Peace in Western Australia and I volunteer at a signing centre. People come in without an appointment and ask me to witness signatures or to certify various documents.

I’m only rostered on once a month so it isn’t particularly onerous.

The other day, a guy who was probably in his early seventies, came in to ask me to certify some documents for him. He told me straight away that his wife … Read the rest ... “Grief – What I’ve Learnt in the First 18 Months”

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1960s Craig House Grief Kitchen Tapes Mofflyn Homes

The Twelfth Kitchen Tape

Recorded 5 May 2018

Sadness Warning

[GM: I found this perhaps the hardest transcript (as well as the hardest recording), both because of the sad content, and it shows how Trenna blocked out a few years from when her dad died until she went to Craig House. I don’t think when we started the conversation that either I or Trenna had any idea where it would lead.]

GM:  Today is Saturday, 5th of May 2018.  We’re talking with Trenna Mahney.… Read the rest ... “The Twelfth Kitchen Tape”

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2010s Carer End of Life Heart and Lung Failure Medical Snippets and Vignettes

A Trip to the Psychiatrist

By Greg & Trenna

This wasn’t the first time that it was suggested that Trenna might need to see a psychiatrist. See also this anecdote from when she was a child.

The recent post “The Key to Happiness and Fulfilment” got me thinking of a visit to Trenna’s cardiologist, which ended up turning into a trip to see a psychiatrist. Here’s what happened…..

It was Monday, 12 June 2017 at 9:30am (actually from about this point we never made appointments, … Read the rest ... “A Trip to the Psychiatrist”

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1960s 1970s Craig House End of Life Eulogy Grief Mourning

Eulogy Part 3

A Celebration of Trenna’s Life  –  15 January 2021

Below is the the eulogy delivered by Trenna’s friend, Helen Rice at the celebration of Trenna’s life.

Eulogy


I met Trenna in October 1967 when I moved to Craig House a hostel for Legacy children.We bonded instantly as we were the youngest at Craig House at that time. She became my closest friend very quickly, so much so that I remember not wanting to go on a visit with my mother … Read the rest ... “Eulogy Part 3”

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End of Life Heart and Lung Failure Marfan Medical Mourning Snippets and Vignettes Visually Impaired Writing

I am Stuck

A Screen shot from Trenna's iPad
A screen shot from Trenna’s iPad

[Note from Greg: I don’t think for one moment that when Trenna prepared this piece on her iPad that she just added a nice picture to the top. I think the fact that she is standing on an island (Staten), with the rest of the world behind her (New York City) is entirely deliberate and relevant.]

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2020 Carer End of Life Eulogy Grief Marfan Medical Mourning

Eulogy Part 2

A Celebration of Trenna’s Life  –  15 January 2021

Below is the the eulogy delivered by Trenna’s oldest sister, Nancy Seckington-Baker at the celebration of Trenna’s life.

Eulogy

Greg has shared his story of Tren’s story. He has stressed I have 5 minutes.

We have endless, wonderful stories of our sister Trenna.  

A truly life WELL LIVED.

However those stories are for another time and place.

I am here to say how incredibly thankful and grateful that we  have … Read the rest ... “Eulogy Part 2”

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Craig House GFS Grief Love and Marriage Marfan Medical

“Please allow me to introduce myself…”


About This Site and About Trenna Mahney

By Greg Mahney

A quick note before you start. If you have read the “About” page of this website you can ignore this particular post as the contents is the same as on that page. If that’s you, just scroll down.

About Trenna

You will learn a lot about Trenna as you go through the material on this website. However, if you aren’t already familiar with Trenna here is a quick primer to … Read the rest ... ““Please allow me to introduce myself…””

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2020 End of Life Eulogy Love and Marriage Mourning Music

Soundtrack of Trenna’s Life

By Greg

Setting Some Context

On 15 January 2021 a celebration of Trenna’s life was held. I wanted to hand out a postcard which had a picture of Trenna and a couple of links to a playlist I developed after Trenna passed away a few weeks earlier. I then put up a Facebook post to help people to click through to the playlist.

That Facebook post appears below and I have embedded the Youtube Playlist and the Spotify below.

I … Read the rest ... “Soundtrack of Trenna’s Life”

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2020 Craig House End of Life Eulogy Grief Marfan Mofflyn Homes Mourning

Eulogy

A Celebration of Trenna’s Life  –  15 January 2021

By Greg

Below is the eulogy I delivered at the Celebration of Trenna’s Life (her funeral). In due course I will do another post explaining what I wanted to achieve from the event and how friends and family helped me to organise it.

One of Trenna’s sisters, Nancy also gave a eulogy, as did Trenna’s friend, Helen. I will be publishing their words in the near future.


Eulogy

It is, of … Read the rest ... “Eulogy”